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Why Woman Leave Men They Love …

23 February; Author: Admin

… What every man needs to know

When-to-know-its-time-to-walk-away.jpgWomen tend to invest a lot in a relationship; we put our heart and soul into it. We trust blindly, care immensely and  love recklessly. We don’t put ourselves first when we are truly in love. My friend fell in love with a man who treated her wrong in so many ways. She trusted him and gave him everything she had. She refused to look past the fake box of perfection she had created for herself. Her idea of a perfect relationship was petty and shallow. She didn’t realize the wrong she was doing to herself; until she was finally out of the relationship.

Men want to be selected by a strong independent woman; the kind of woman who knows her worth, she respects herself and knows how to make people respect her. The moment a woman learns self-respect, she gains the ability to evaluate her relationship better. She prepares herself to leave the man she loves because show knows that, her love for this man, was for the wrong reasons. Every meaningless thing suddenly starts to make sense. Here are some of the reasons that make women leave the men they love.

1. Lack of common interests are not a good sign

Okay, before I say anything, I want you to know that people change with time. It might be you or it might be your partner. It is very true that negatives attract, but you both should have some common interests. If you transitioned, it’s not necessary that your partner too transitioned with you. It was these common interests that initially helped you both bond, their absence will have a drastic affect on your relationship.

Any girl would be left questioning her decisions. My friend’s ex used to adore so many things about her but she told me that by the end of the relationship, he started to disapprove of almost everything she did, as if she were inclined to please him.

2. Lack of communication will kill you

Women need someone to talk to, it’s impractical for a guy to be by her side all the time but if you are absent most of the time you are giving her one less of a reason to hold on. If you are not with her every time she needs you, its like practically asking her to move on. My friend’s ex would be absent for days without any explanation.

3. Physical Intimacy is very important

Women need just as much physical intimacy as men. If you stop making sexual advances or are not taking care of her needs, she is probably going to think that there is someone else who is taking care of your desires for you. She is probably going to feel unwanted and worthless which will be very damaging for your relationship.

Being physically intimate says a lot of things without the usage of words. Yes, not everyone who gets laid is in love, but love is the number one reason people have sex. If you care about your partner and their needs in bed, they will have an assurance that your relation is something worth holding on to and their is some spark left between you two.

4. Selfishness takes over

You are more invested into activities that please you, the less time you give her, the more distort she starts to feel about the relationship. We women want to be a priority, we don’t want to be treated as convenience. If you want to be left alone, she will show resistance to a certain extent after that she will seriously consider that you should be left alone for good. Their is no “I” in a relationship.

Remember, a relationship is an amalgam of things connected to one another giving you both reasons to hold on to one another. If these connections don’t exist anymore, your lady will no longer feel inclined to stay by your side. The biggest thing a woman needs is assurance and security. If your aren’t for filling your promises and not putting effort into your relationship, it will pull her apart bit by bit, to a point that she wouldn’t want to commit anymore and will probably look around for a new romance. A woman, unlike girls, doesn’t believe in fairy tales. She is a practical person and even though she would be very much in love with you, she would run out of reasons to hold on and when she does she will walk away.

 

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