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Before Tying the Knot

8 October; Author: Admin

Some couples get so caught up in the moment when they decide to get married that they don’t think about it being a lifelong commitment. Here are a few things to consider before tying the knot

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There are few bigger moments in a person’s life than getting married. And it’s not just about walking down the aisle on your wedding day. It’s about joining your lives together and committing to stand by one another until you take your last breath.

And that’s why it’s important to know that you’re marrying the right person before you say “I do”

Sometimes people get caught up in the moment and forget to think about certain factors before they agree to spend their lives together. So, here are a few things you should think about before you tie the knot:

1. Do you know all their annoying habits?

And can you live with them for the rest of your life? Does your partner snore? Does your partner have any particular bad habits, like smoking or supporting the Australian rugby team?

You really need to investigate all their annoying habits before you decide to sign up to spend the rest of your life with them.

Believe it or not, people have gone mad after a few years of their partner chewing loudly at the dinner table. These things may seem petty now, but will they still be petty in twenty years?

2. Can you be deadly honest with them?

If you have to sugarcoat every little bit of constructive criticism you send their way, you may have problems in the future.

Can you tell them when they need to calm down or when they’re being irrational? What about your insecurities or grievances? Can you unload your innermost thoughts on them without starting a fight?

3. How easy is it to communicate with them?

Do you find it hard to start a conversation at the dinner table? Or can you talk for hours without a moment of silence?

Do you love coming home from a hard day at the office and listening to them talk about their day? Because that’s something of which you’re going to have to do a lot.

You also need to think about whether you can talk to them about deeper issues than that movie you’ve just watched.

4. Do you have enough in common?

Opposites attract, but attraction isn’t going to keep you together forever. You need to have some similar interests or you’re going to run out of things to talk about (and care about) together. You need to be able to go out and enjoy everyday activities with your partner.

Compromise is key, but you don’t want to have to compromise on everything you do together.

5. Are you on the same page when it comes to the future?

Have you discussed children – how many you want or whether you want any at all? What about whether one of you will give up their career to raise the child?

Also, have you discussed where you see your career in the future? Because if you see your future position requiring a lot of travel, you might want to discuss that with them. Everything you do after you say “I do” affects them too.

So, before you hurry down the aisle with the love of your life, think about a few of these things. Better still, sit and discuss all these points with them. Yes, life is an adventure, but there are some things you need to be prepared for.

 

 

*This article was published on All4Woman and provided by Galaxy & Co. which sells wedding bands for women.

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